Best of Road Abby: My mental health worsened when I found out that my boyfriend had a wife and children

Dear Abby: I was associated with a married man for five years. He lied to me about his status. He told me that he was left by a woman with whom he had a 15-year relationship. I recently found out that she has been with her for over 30 years and she is the mother of his children. I tried to leave many times, but I always come back. I don’t blame him, but the scammers hurt me a lot. Since I was hospitalized with him three times because of depression. I’m not a home wreck. He is not a demon. I just need help. I can’t keep it like that. My mental health is getting worse. Please, help me. – Broken heart in Maryland

Dear broken heart: you got stuck in a self -sufficient cycle that will not change. In my book, this married man is a demon. He is a terrible person without conscience. Seeing the influence of this romance on you (three hospitalizations on depression!?), If he had a conscience at all, he would end it. If you do not have a licensed mental health specialist, with whom he helped you constantly get tangled from this destructive cycle, ask to be recommended to it before you have to be hospitalized again.

The Road of Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Contact the ABBY road to the address www.dearabby.com or after box 69440, Los Angeles, Ca 90069.